"The Bad and The Ugly" House Photos
Don't get me wrong, I think it's incredibly sweet when folks write and tell me that my home is so lovely and pretty. But at the same time, I kind of shudder at the thought because, you see, it's not. Our completed projects like the red cabinets and the new windows and french doors in the kitchen, the painted living room and...(*gulp* I think that's it so far!), did turn out nicely and I'm really happy with the results, but I'm truly not joking when I say this place is a "glorified shack" and not very easy on the eyes (or my emotional well-being!). I have to work really hard at not getting extremely depressed here and let's face it - sometimes despite my best efforts, I'm ready to throw in the towel and move. Not that we could actually ever sell the place in it's current state. There is so, so, SO much left to do and with hubs being a busy manager at his company and with our life outside renovating, things get done around here very slowly. I know *now* that when we start anything around here, no matter how small of a project, it will literally take weeks, if not months, to complete. That's our reality, lol, and I'm trying to deal with it as best as I can. Some days I just hate this place and other days I'm thankful to have dry place to lay my head at night.
So moving on...thank you to all who have complimented my home in the past and I'm really sorry that I'm about to majorly disappoint you with these photos, lol. I can say, though, that I truly believe that their is potential in anything - from people to neighborhoods to houses. What I do have going for me is that I can *see* what the house is going to look like when finished. My frustration stems from not being able to bring my visions to fruition say...yesterday! I'm tired of the dirt and dust and ugliness. I'm tired of packing away all my thrifty Goodwill finds until I can use them. I'm tired of the gutted bathroom and looking at studs around every corner. I want a completed house so that I can...bake or sew or something fun!!! (Patting myself on the back while saying, "Patience, my dear...Patience!")
Ok, this first photo is from our storage/sunroom. It's basically a porch with lots of sliding doors. This is where we keep our computer and I freeze my booty off in the winter and sweat like a pig in the summer. What you are seeing is water damage caused by heavy rain the first week we moved into the house. The previous owner gave us $4000 to fix the roof, but wouldn't you know, the central heat and air stopped working the day after we moved in, so we used the "roof money" to replace the heat and air unit. We had to wait a few months to fix the roof, but fortunately, this was the only spot in the house that sustained damage. See all those cobwebs. I know, I know. The ceilings in here are very tall and I haven't yet been motivated to drag the ladder in to clean.
Here you can get a glimpse of how high the ceilings are. There use to be skylights up there but we opted to have them removed because they were improperly installed and not that attractive. When we get around to this room, we'll have to redo the ceiling completely. There are beadboard panels up there right now. I think this would make a great little craft studio, personally. Lots of light in here! See, there's me being positive about an icky room...Yay, me!
This is the threshold between the kitchen and the sunroom stoop/steps. Gotta love that old lino and berber combination. This will all be seamless hardwood when we do the kitchen floor.
*Sigh* This is the lovely threshold between the kitchen and the living room. There use to be berber in the living room, but we pulled it all up and sealed the plywood up with paint until we install the flooring. Can you imagine all the dust that would settle into carpet during a whole house renovation?
"My, ain't it purdy!" *sniff* The contrast between the green primer on the kitchen walls and the yellow living room walls is atrocious in this shot. We'll be adding beadboard halfway up in the kitchen, dining, hallway, AND living room for a more cohesive look. I didn't think I would add it to the living room, too, but I think I've changed my mind.
When you walk into our front door, this is what you see. I find myself apologizing profusely to every soul that comes in. "We're renovating! Excuse the mess!" Those rugs are such a pain and are very unsightly, but they look a little better than the bare white floors that seem to attract dirt like a magnet.
No shiny white pristine baseboards in this house. No baseboards at all!
Here is the entryway. There is no door trim in our house either, lol. We will be removing the coat closet completely and building a built in shelving unit/desk in it's place. The popcorn ceiling will be replaced with the same ceiling treatment in our kitchen, pine planks painted white.
I hate hollow doors.
This is the tile in our entryway. It's the very same tile that was on our fireplace surround. These tiles will go when we put down hardwood.
Oh, yeah...a little glimpse into the kinds of messes we make around here. Messes like this, even after cleaned up, create messes like....
THIS! See all the dust on the ceiling fan and the popcorn ceiling in the living room? I can hear every tidy housewife across the globe gasping collectively right now. I know. I have to bring in the big (12 foot) ladder to clean it all. The 6-footer only gets me so far. This is another reason why I hate popcorn ceilings. They will be replaced with pine planks just like the kitchen, and a new beam will be installed. We took down the old beam when we mudded the living room walls.
From the living room, you get a great view of our currently very scary hallway. It's so dark and depressing. Hopefully, though, the changes we make to it will be very dramatic. We'll be raising the ceiling from 7 feet to 8 feet high and installing pine planks (once again, down with the popcorn!), replacing the ugly light fixture, installing solid pine six panel doors, adding white beadboard halfway up, and painting the wall above the beadboard the same shade of cheery yellow that we have in the living room. And of course, we'll be putting down our flooring in the hallway, too.
This is the bathroom door. We moved it down the hall about 18 inches to create a nook in the bathroom for the toilet. We put off doing the drywall work until we officially get around to working on the hallway ceiling and walls.
The right side of the bathroom door...The electrical junction box use to be here but hubs moved it to the laundry room. It looks much better hidden, but the hole it left in the hallway wall is quite unattractive right now.
A shot to show you just how low the ceiling is in our cave-of-a-hallway. Hopefully raising it a foot will make a huge difference in how the hall feels.
Hubs is going to love me for posting this photo, hehe. But I was trying to capture what our dining room normally looks like (and provide proof that we really do work on the place!). Piles of renovation material everywhere...Hubs was working on walling up the doorway between the dining room and laundry room.
Just another shot to show how we don't have any trim. It's very unpleasant to see. Kind of like looking at someone without eyebrows.
Well, that's all I've photographed though I assure you that there are many more ugly parts to our home. Don't forget that our bathroom is gutted and we haven't even touched the bedrooms yet. I don't think the girls' temporary bedroom makeover counts because it was just make-do-for-overnight-guests-till-we-get-around-to-doing-it-right. Oh, and then there's the exterior....OH, the exterior! I don't even want to think about it.
I hope that in some twisted way,LOL, you've enjoyed these. I will enjoy looking at them, too, *after* our projects are completed and we can do a before and after comparison. Thanks so much for joining us on this crazy journey we call home renovation!
May 2008 UPDATE: Yes, ever so slowly, things are improving here in our little home sweet home:) Here are a few "progress" photos that were taken of our kitchen, living room, and hallway since this post was originally written. Maybe there is hope yet?
32 comments:
Looking at your projects remind me of our old 1912 home. There was always something to do. We just didn't have the time, nor the money to do it the way I wanted. :)
Good luck. Keep us updated
Wow, you get even more props for the spectacular work that you've done when we see what you're working with. Just imagine what the place will look like when you've been able to work your magic throughout! To be fair to yourself you really should have finished this post with one of your "after" photos. Because, there's nothing in those "before" photos that you can't turn around. You can do this. Don't get discouraged!
Kim...listen to Bill. Truly. You've done some remarkable work on your home and I know it must be hard to look around and see how far you have to go...but think of how spectacular it will look one day and think of the satisfaction you'll have knowing that you and hubs did it yourselves! You have the wonderful knack of being able to "see" beauty where others would cover their eyes and run the other way :)
Again, as Bill said, don't get discouraged. You CAN do this.
Keep your sense of humor-you will need it! It sounds like you have a healthy outlook-it WILL GET BETTER. You've done a great job so far.
It's messy and there is lot to be done. I know how that can wear you down. However, you and your husband do beautiful work and it will all be lovely some day.
Thanks for sharing. My house is also a mix of the awful and the (I hope) really lovely. Maybe this will give me the courage to post some pictures of my projects in waiting.
Kim, Kim, Kim,
Do you want me to go through my house and snap pics like these and post them on my blog to let you know you're not alone? Cause I can! Seriously! And I just might, too!
I was just moping around my house yesterday thinking, the only bad thing about redoing one room the way you like it is it throws into sharp contrast all the other rooms you haven't gotten to yet.
One step at a time. This is the down side of being D-I-Y-ers. It takes longer and is messier, but it's so worth it at the end. You know that already, you just need a reminder!
Go make yourself a cup of tea in your lovely kitchen and remind yourself what it used to look like!
I am so doing this on my blog!
Now that is real life! LOL..I love it, it feels good knowing someone else is living the same way I am!
Now that is real life! LOL..I love it, it feels good knowing someone else is living the same way I am!
Kim, I so enjoyed your pictures, in a bit of a twisted way. I sit sideways at the computer and have to twist at the waist to see the screen. :)
I posted a note on my site in honor of you today.
Donna
I do love these photos! It shows what you are starting with & how far you've come. AND, its important for anyone who looks at magazines/blogs/whatever & sees the lovely rooms to know what goes into making them that way. I really admire everything that you are putting into your home.
Oh, Kim - thanks for sharing your house in all its true colors. I thought, too, that I was the only one living in dust and disarray. But don't give up! Just go in your kitchen and look around and be inspired by the wonderful things you have accomplished there. I know what you mean when you have to deal with time and money limitations - you can't do it all yesterday, but even one year from now, your home will be so different. And I am beginning to believe, at least for myself, that I will NEVER be done, so enjoy the process! (hahahahah, laughing hysterically!)
Yep, I STILL LOVE YOUR HOUSE! ;-)
xo,
Kim
Kim, it will all be worth it when you finish! Believe Me!!!
DH & I bought an old house and have been working on it for 26 years. Our first 10 years here we had no money, the second 10 years we had no time and now we have no money, again....LOL. It's just taking us a long time to do things ourselves. We did our bathroom first and then redid our bedrooms and the last big project was our kitchen. We have the little bathroom and laundry area to tackle now plus redoing our wood floors but that we will take slowly, we're getting too old to do things for ourselves. Enjoy your youth and let those little ones help. Our two children have great memories of painting, building, and putting up fences and cutting down trees. And both of them always have projects going at their own homes.
Just be sure and take care of your back! LOL
Marilyn
I think it's good to show both sides of renovating: the befores and afters. No sense in making everyone think it's a piece of cake, right? You have done such a beautiful job with what you've already done! I hate popcorn ceilings, too. We have them in our not-terribly-old house and I would LOVE to do them the way you're doing yours; but alas, I don't think we'd be in this house long enough to enjoy the results. Hang in there!
Kim ...you have created a monster.
Everyone being honest about the state of their projects.
You see we all have our photos that can spoil the illusion or give hope to some other soul trying to renovate and have a perfect house at the same time..
I loved it all and as they say "Rome wasn't built in a day".
Hey Kim! I'm sorry I haven't commented in awhile. Ive been meaning to. Its just really hard lately to do anything.
I remember exactly the stage you are at. It will be over by and by and at least you will have time to sit back and enjoy the results.
Thinking of you!
I bet a lot of us bloggers have a house that looks exactly like yours despite our pretty pictures! That's why we only take pictures of a corner here and there. As for popcorn, I have been scraping that crap off every ceiling in my home for a while. Only one bedroom and 2 bathrooms to go!
Kim, you really have a lot going on & I'm looking forward to browsing around your blog. I just found you from a post that Donna put on her site. Ya'll have done wonders already (love the red kitchen cabs.) & I can't wait to see more. My home is not exactly a cottage (it's a traditional all brick), but I love some of the elements of cottage living & adore yardsaling & thrifting. Please come & visit me when you get a chance...if you do get a break from all your renovating!
Rhoda
Southern Hospitality
I am so glad you showed these pictures! While I love looking for inspiration, at the same time I feel so terrible looking at the "perfect lives" of everyone on the Internet. It's actually encouraging to see that it's not perfect, and you're working diligently at making it better one step at a time. Thank you!
Hang in there, it will be so worth it and you have done some amazing work so far! It's tiring and it's not glamorous at all but keep that vision firmly planted in your mind and you will get there! Love what you're going... xo
ahhh yes those befores....good to have them because when it's all said and done you'll be able to see such a huge difference and be so happy! Ok so from the looks of your husband in this photo, he is NOT a plummer? tehehehee! in this instance 'that would be a good thing:) tehehehe!
I don't know how I missed this post! I try to keep up with at least 10 or so DIY houseblogs.
First, Your very lucky to have such high ceilings. They are a definite bonus in any home. Second, what you have already done to your house is nothing short of incredible. I still cannot get over the way you improved your kitchen cupboards. It really was amazing and the ceiling planks and boxed beams are going to be awesome!
Trim and baseboards are peanuts. They are like the icing on the cake and are put on when you are so close to being finished.
And guess what? My one room that was supposed to be finished by Christmas still is not because we haven't had the funds to do ANYTHING at all. This really got me down for a good month or so but you know what? It will be done, just not as fast as I had hoped. It kills me to see anyone get new drywall hung because I want new walls so bad myself and can't afford it.
To me the pictures of your house (although depressing to you right now) seem so small because my house is *really* in bad shape cosmetically. If you want to get an eyeful, visit my blog and check out the flickr pics, you'll be scared silly and will probably feel alot better afterwards. :)
Hang in there and remember it will get done.
Boy, can I realate! We bought our house 19 years ago and we are still working on it. It took so long to get to our kitchen (12 years?) and then so long to get it done (2years) that I nearly had a nervous breakdown. But you know we have a lot of good memories here...and our house is turning out nice. And yours will too...you are well on your way. Now, about our gutted stairway.....
Kim,
What I see when I look at these pictures is rooms in progress. I don't see what you see. I don't see the dust (truly, I don't! - I guess if you tell me to enlarge the picture and then study things I might), I don't see anything "funny" or out of place. I just see progress. Keep your chin up, Kim! You guys are doing a great job, and your determination will carry you through. Continued good luck...and stamina to see things through, even if it takes you three times longer than you thought!
I can't tell you all how much your heartfelt comments mean to me! I tried to stay lighthearted in my post but my aggravation with this place is so obvious, lol.
Kim - I hear you about the lack of time and money! Over the last two or three years we have been gathering and collecting our materials as we have the funds - and now we have a garage full of things (floors, countertops, sinks, faucets - and soon doors...) that we barely have the time to install!
Ah, Bill- thanks so much for your words of encouragement. You've come so far with your own home and are such an inspiration. From you I learn to keep chipping away and to do it right, no matter how long it might take. I think I'm going to try tackling more of the smaller projects myself, too, so that *something* is being worked on between the larger projects. (I agree, those Home Depot commericials that feature women DIY'ers are really great and inspiring!). I don't mind the mess here when there is work going on...it's when things get stagnant, lol, that I get grumpy.
Poppy, I really appreciate your comments and compliments on the house. My head stays in the clouds most of the time while I "design" this and that. It's so much fun to try to look at a space or oject differently and to change it accordingly. You're right, as I do have a plan and a vision for the place. Without it, I don't know what I'd do!
Hi Willzmom! Yeah, I think I sense of humor is an absolute necessity for DIYers. Lol, it's the only way my family can get through our mornings when 4 or 5 of us are crammed into a half-bath trying to get ready. A circus, I tell ya! We sure will have stories to tell when we're finished!
Jordana, it's so wonderful to hear from you! I'm excited about your new Purple House and glad you know exactly what we're going through here. My hat is off to you who is remodeling with four kidlets - one of which is wee one...I can sure learn a thing or two from you!
Hehe, Emily, I put off posting these photos forever because I can't stand them. It's tough to bare all but I wanted everyone to see our "cottage" for what it really is - a true work in progress:) Thank you for stopping in and leaving me a note!
Pippa! You sweet thing! I read your entry and it really touched me. Thank you for being so thoughtful and I loved everyone of your house pics. It really put my mind at ease - I'm not the only one! I'm not the only one! Your cottage kitchen is so pretty - you and your hubs did such an awesome job!
LilCottageShoppe - Yay! You're not the only one! Misery does love company, lol, and I was so hoping there would be others in the same boat (I hope that doesn't come across as terrible as it sounds!). Thanks for letting my know your right where I am!
Oh, Donna - I loved your entry! That was such a kind gesture! It really brightened my day and put a smile on my face. I love the work you guys have done to your place - and such creative ideas, too, like the "arched" doorway. I can always count on finding great ideas on your site, and then to find your sweet entry for me...Thank you so much!
Thank you, Kim! Yeah, I love to see makeover shows that really show the knitty gritty of the whole process - and not the "fast forward four months later" type programs that never show any of the work. I think readers should see *all* the sides of remodeling, lol.
Hi, Denise! Nope, you can officially join the rest of us living in dust and disarray! We're coming out of the woodwork and you're not alone:) Someone told me a few years ago of a friend that finally finished their bath after *nine years* of working on it. I just laughed, thinking that was kind of odd. But here we sit at our house on year two with a gutted bathroom...it's not so funny anymore! But I've set up a "hire-a-tile-guy" fund that's growing a little each month and we hope to have our bathroom finished within the next year. Sounds a long ways off, but at this point, I'm so thankful that will be put back together soon, lol!
Kim, ahh, you're so sweet:)I guess it can only get better from here, hehe.
Thank you, Marilyn! I enjoyed reading about your own remodeling experience in your home. It's true, rarely do the money and time aspects work together nicely for many of us. Oh, I will for sure be putting the kids to work this spring and summer - especially in the yard. We have a lot or pruning to do and I don't plan on hauling all those limbs from the back yard to front myself - three kids should be able to do that quite nicely, hehe. It's good to hear from you!
Hi, Kim! Thank you! Yes, befores, afters, and plenty of "durings" are very important. If nothing else, they serve as cautionary tales for those considering renovating themselves, lol! Thanks for dropping by:)
Hello, Alison! Always good to see you! Yes, I hope that in some way these icky old photos have helped someone somehow. You're right, Rome wasn't built in a day!
Jessica! How are things up in KY? Always an adventure, I'm sure. You know, when I see shows like Designed to Sell where they fix up their homes to sell, I often wonder how they can stand to leave their homes now that they look better than ever. I'm sure it's not easy! I'm glad that when you build your house, you'll get to enjoy all your hardwork!
LOL, Chris, about the popcorn ceilings. I can't stand it! Yay that you're almost finsished scraping it off your ceilings once and for all!
Hi, Rhoda! I'm happy that you stopped by:) Our house isn't a real "cottage" per se either but we hope that by the time we're finished renovating inside and out, it will look as charming as a bonified cottage. It's going to take a lot of work but I think it's doable. I'm looking forward to checking out your site!
Tara, I know that feeling! I do get so inspired by all the creative ideas and projects of others, but it's also inspiring in many ways to see the messes in between. We're all just human, afterall! Thanks for visiting - I really appreciate your comment!
Thank you, Nel, for those encouraging words! Yes, glamorous renovating is not, lol, especially when it takes many months or years!
OneBlueEgg, your comment was hilarious! I didn't get a chance to read it today before my hubs did. He asked me at one point today if I was glad he wasn't a plumber. I was confused and he told me I need to read todays comments (I had been out and he was home catching up with the site)...then it all made sense!
That's so funny! Thanks for good laugh:)
Patricia, how bad would it be for me to check out your Flickr photos to make myself feel better? Lol! Oh, I hear you! One thing that we do have going for us is that our house is relatively young (30 years old) so our projects aren't as involved as they could be if we had a much older home. I still wish I had an old house with lots of character, though, but just trying to look at the bright side here...hehe. You look at other people's drywall the way I look at other people's floors. I *so* want flooring! We have it now for every room in the house except our bedroom but we just aren't far enough along with our projects to install them. Oh, but how I do drool over other people's flooring! Your post made me smile and your blog and your projects - all the work that you've done - is truly inspiring to me. Thank you for your encouraging words!
Pedalpower - the words "nervous breakdown" have been uttered in our home on numerouse occasions. I know the feeling! I'm a disorganized perfectionist - I'm just so overwhelmed be the chaos I don't know where to start and it drives me bonkers! I'm glad to hear from others and how they survived it all - if you can, I can, too!
Thank you, Meg! No, the last thing you need to see are these photos enlarged, LOL! I'm glad you see it as a work in progress...someday when we're finished I need to have hard copies of my photos made and create a scrapbook of sorts. THEN I'll be able to look at these photos in a different and more positive light. Thank you for your sweet comments
hi Kim wow
thanks for sharing I dont feel so bad now I have a bunch of the same kind of things going on here but please keep posting the finished pictures so we can all enjoy
carol
A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step... and re-modelling is no joke! Keep on going and thank you for posting these pictures. It's heartening to see other peoples houses looking in a state and not just after when they're perfect. As I kept saying to my brother when the builders had to rebuild his house walls... it'll be lovely when it's finished!
Hi Kim!
Your remodeling reminds me of growing up in a house that was forever being remodeled. My mom was quite a pro at cleaning up after my dad. She used to line up his tools and supplies like a nurse does in surgery. We would giggle as she followed him around with a broom and dustpan. She always had a pair of 'boon-dockers' and even a tool-belt.
You can do it, KIM! And, your house will be beautiful when you are finished. If it helps at all - there are so many of us who just 'dream' - you are realizing your dreams!
Hugs, Patti
Our old farm house is over a century old in the back half, about 40 years old in the front half. The kitchen is from the 1970's, dark oak cabinets and trim, stove right next to the refrigerator, etc. We've put in a new sink, new flooring, painted and papered, but the cabinets are driving me nuts. I like your idea of beadboard on the sides and the trim on the bottom edge. We might just look into that. I'm just trying to find the courage to start! Diane in MO
Just one question: WHY are you doing this?!?!?! Oooowwwwww what a lot of work! Did you get the house for a "song" or something like that?
Smoochies,
Connie
Okay, the first paragraph of this post could have come directly from my mouth...or my fingers, I guess, since we're typing, but seriously this is exactly how I feel about our house. My living and dining room ceilings are the old, ugly perforated tile ceilings and I just want to cry when I look at them. Add that to the fact that some walls have baseboards, some don't, and some have some halfway across the wall and then it stops...I could go on for days here, but suffice it to say that every inch of this old house needs something done to it. And my husband works a lot, so there's just no time for anything! Just wanted to let you know that I so feel your pain!
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